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Experience description:   

I was in my bed. When I looked, he was standing next to my bed. I asked him if he was alright. He told me "Yes", without speaking. I asked him if I could hold him. If that was possible. He say I could. I got up and gave him a hug. Than I cried. I wasn't afraid or sad. I just missed him so much. The hug lasted about 10/15 seconds. Than I saw him vanishing, gradually.

The next day I told my mother. She said that that day was his death's anniversary. He had died three years ago.

Did you sense an awareness or presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them ?  Yes
     
Describe:  I could sense someone was standing. trough my skin and due to my heart beats

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?  Yes
     
Describe:  I heard that he was alright. He told me not to be afraid. He just wanted to say goodbye.
     
Did the voice or sound seem to originate externally, or outside of you, inside of you, or did you not hear a voice or sound but had a knowing of what was communicated?  knew what was communicated but I didn't hear any voice
     
Is there any possibility that what you heard was from any other source in the surroundings at the time of your experience?  I knew. I didn't hear a voice

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?  Yes

     
Where and how were you touched?  I gave him a hug. A very strong hug.

     
Was the touch familiar?  familiar. Like he always did.

     
Was anything communicated by the touch?  Yes. Love and a certain sadness. He missed me. I missed him too.

     
Is there any possibility what you felt was from any other source present in your surroundings at the time of your experience?  No

Did you see the deceased?  Yes

     
Describe the appearance of the deceased:  He looked good. Calm. Peaceful. He had no difference from his appearance when alive.

     
How clearly did the deceased appear?  Solid. Real. Alive.

      
How much of the deceased did you see?  The whole Body. He stood up beside my bed.

     
Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?  He appeared the age at which hi died but looked better. He died with brain cancer. At the time of his death he was very sick. When he appeared, looked healthy.

     
How healthy did the deceased appear to be?  as answered above.

     
Is there any possibility what you saw was from any other source present in your surroundings at the time of your experience?  No

Did you smell a distinct smell, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?  Yes

     
Describe:  flowers

     
Was the smell, scent, fragrance or odor familiar?  no. But was very good.

     
Was anything communicated by the smell?  Calm. Love.

     
Is there any possibility the smell, scent, fragrance or odor was from any other source present in your surroundings at the time of your experience?  No

How long did the experience last?  About 5/7 minutes.

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?  The beginning was sudden. When I looked he was there. The end was gradual. The image was slowly vanishing.

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?  He was very good and he wanted to tell me everything was fine. He was worried about me. Bu he always showed a tender smile on his face.
     
Describe:  He was very good and he wanted to tell me everything was fine. He was worried about me. Bu he always showed a tender smile on his face.

Did the deceased give you information you did not previously know?  He just told me he was alright.

How do you currently view the reality of your experience:  Experience was definitely real

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:  I missed him very much so I cried. But I was happy to see him and glad to know he was alright.

Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?  Yes
     
Describe:  I always believe in life after death. I had some previous experiences. But that one was the most powerful because I could touch him and because he was a person I loved.

Have you ever made a death compact?  Yes
      Describe:  Made it with my mother who is still alive. Not with my uncle.

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?  Uncertain
      Describe:  I believed I had some Astral Travel while meditating. I saw thing I didn't knew. And other places. I saw London's Great Fire in 1666 - I'm Portuguese. I didn't know anything about that fire, for example.

Was the experience dream like in any way?  Uncertain
      Describe:  About the deceased: Uncertain because I was in my bed. But I was awake and the experience was real.

About the astral travel: No. I was meditating.

Did you experience a separation of consciousness from your body? No response
     
Describe:  About the deceased: No

About the astral travel: Yes

Did you see a light?  Yes

      Describe:  Yes. In different experiences. I didn't know them and and they didn't communicate. I just saw them walking around in my house

Did you meet or see any other beings other than the deceased?  Yes

      Describe:  Yes. In different experiences. I didn't know them and and they didn't communicate. I just saw them walking around in my house

Did you experience a review of past events in your life?  Yes

      Describe:  While meditating, when I saw London's great fire I thought it was related to my past lives. I has other similar experiences

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?  Yes

      Describe:  London's Great Fire: I aw medieval London with all the details. 

Did you see or visit any beautiful or otherwise distinctive locations, levels or dimensions?  Yes

      Describe: 
1: Ireland. A prostitutes house in the middle age. I was a man

2: London, England. Great Fire, 1666

3: Paris. Gardens and palaces from the 12th century (more or less)

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?  No response

Did you have a sense of knowing special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?  Yes

      Describe:  I know many thing about life after death. About past lives, astral travel... I know them due to my experience

Did you become aware of future events?  Yes

      Describe:  Only when I read the Tarot Cards, or the Belline's Oracle. Or during dreams.

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience you did not have prior to the experience?  No

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?  No

Has the experience affected your relationships?  Daily life?  Religious practices etc.?  Career choices?  It didn't. I always believed. That was just a confirmation.

Have you shared this experience with others?  Yes

      Describe:  They believed me. Yes, they were influenced. The started thinking about the theme.

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?  No

What emotions/feelings did you experience following your experience?
  Calm. Relaxed. Quiet. I felt good. Really good.

What was the best and worst part of your experience?  The whole experience was good.

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?  No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?  No
       
Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?  Yes