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Experience description:   

it was about 3 o'clock, I slept without eating lunch. I set eyes on each other. At this moment I felt I can not move my arm. I wanted to scream I cannot.  I was too scared. I heard a voice that said, let's go. I remember I was so upset because of my family. I said I want to comeback to my family.

At that moment I fell I can move. I got up immediately. I and my mother and my sister cry for 2 hours. After that experience I Slept with anxiety. After I entered college In psychology I see a disorder called sleep paralysis With signs Just like my experience.  After reading that article I feel calm. Now I study and research in the ​​ mind and sleep With the hope that can get a clue and help to thousands of anxious people.

At the time of your experience was there an associated life-threatening event?   No 

Was the experience difficult to express in words?  No    

At what time during the experience were you at your highest level of consciousness and alertness?    When I felt I could not move my arm

How did your highest level of consciousness and alertness during the experience compare to your normal everyday consciousness and alertness?      Normal consciousness and alertness  

Please compare your vision during the experience to your everyday vision that you had immediately prior to the time of the experience.
   I think at that time  I could  saw the Bed sheet pulled over my head. But Now I'm not sure. In fact, I think All my senses were normal and I was just paralyzed.  That sound can refer My previous beliefs about the survival of the soul and return it

Please compare your hearing during the experience to your everyday hearing that you had immediately prior to the time of the experience.
   everything I say about  sight can applies to hearing also

Did you see or hear any earthly events that were occurring during a time that your consciousness / awareness was apart from your physical / earthly body?   No  

What emotions did you feel during the experience?   Grief  -   Stress   -    Fear    -   Separation  

Did you pass into or through a tunnel?   No  

Did you see an unearthly light?   No  

Did you seem to encounter a mystical being or presence, or hear an unidentifiable voice?   I heard a voice I could not identify

Did you encounter or become aware of any beings who previously lived on earth who are described by name in religions (for example: Jesus, Muhammad, Buddha, etc.)?   No  

Did you encounter or become aware of any deceased (or alive) beings?   No  

Did you become aware of past events in your life during your experience?   No  

Did you seem to enter some other, unearthly world?   No

Did time seem to speed up or slow down?   Time seemed to go faster or slower than usual
Just like the person in the REM phase of sleep that see dream more than sleep

I also had dream more than the time of my sleep .According to my family about how long I slept, and my understanding of that.

Did you suddenly seem to understand everything?   No

Did you reach a boundary or limiting physical structure?   No

Did you come to a border or point of no return?   No

Did scenes from the future come to you?  No 

During your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness suggesting that there either is (or is not) continued existence after earthly life (life after death)?   Uncertain  

During your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness that God or a supreme being either does (or does not) exist?   Uncertain  

During your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness that you either did (or did not) exist prior to this lifetime?   No  

During your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness that a mystical universal connection or unity/oneness either does (or does not) exist?   Uncertain  

During your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness regarding earthly lifes meaning or purpose?   No  

During your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness regarding earthly lifes difficulties, challenges, or hardships?   No  

During your experience, did you encounter any specific information / awareness regarding love?   Yes   Just love to my family

During your experience, did you encounter any other specific information / awareness that you have not shared in other questions that is relevant to living our earthly lives?   No  

Did you have a sense of knowing special knowledge or purpose?   No  

What occurred during your experience included:   Content that was entirely consistent with the beliefs you had at the time of your experience  

How accurately do you remember the experience in comparison to other life events that occurred around the time of the experience?   I remember the experience less accurately than other life events that occurred around the time of the experience  

Discuss any changes that might have occurred in your life after your experience:   The only change in my life after that experience was Only depression and anxiety for 4 years and Strong incentive to find its cause

My experience directly resulted in:  
Moderate changes in my life

Did you have any changes in your values or beliefs after the experience that occurred as a result of the experience?  
No  

Are there one or several parts of your experience that are especially meaningful or significant to you?   The only thing I could not understand why ُwas my body numbness after my NDE

Do you have any psychic, non-ordinary or other special gifts after your experience that you did not have before the experience?   No  

Are there one or several parts of your experience that are especially meaningful or significant to you?    
The only thing I could not understand why ُwas my body numbness after my NDE

Have you ever shared this experience with others?  
Yes  After my experience my family  were the first to know about my experience .They were very upset and crying .after 6 months I  told my  experience to my friend and her  reaction was sadness.

Did you have any knowledge of near death experience (NDE) prior to your experience?   Yes   I've heard many times about the experience of death in the media.Just as I had imagined it happened.This is because that I think NDE Is the result of brain activity.just Like a dream that I think dream is Sensory information  processing with memories Association.

What did you believe about the reality of your experience shortly (days to weeks) after it happened:   Experience was definitely real  

What do you believe about the reality of your experience at the current time:   Experience was probably not real   Now I like that I think it was just sleep paralysis despite being wrong.

Have your relationships changed specifically as a result of your experience?   Yes   After that I became more compassionate

Have your religious beliefs/spiritual practices changed specifically as a result of your experience?   No  

At any time in your life, has anything ever reproduced any part of the experience?   No     

Did the questions asked and information that you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?   Yes    

What could a national organization with an interest in near death experience (NDE) do that would be of interest to you?        I would like the  Relationship between sleep paralysis and NDE Be studied if it is possible.

Please offer any suggestions that you may have to improve this questionnaire.  Are there any other questions that we could ask to help you communicate your experience?                    If you can Along with this questionnaire use an personal questionnaire you can Get Very useful info Like Degree of Indoctrination .