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David A's Experience

Experience description:   

Woke up in middle of the night walked in hallway and would see this lady, this went on for months, she had a hair rolled into bun on her head and came in a lightly clouded form and shape,  I could feel  a coldness and she would stand there move into living room and then I seen her in mirror.  I would wake my mom up and she would put me back in bed.  I told her about this and after months she encounter and saw her with me while she was putting me in bed.  She became a believer and understood.  A few months later a man came to the door and stated he was the original owner and builder of this house.  He told my mother he build it for his wife and he never was able to finish house, she died in house.  My mother asked him if she wore her hair in a bun, He said yes.  She told him what was taking place at house, they cried together. had told him.  After my Mom seen her she did not come back for a year or two than she came back years later for two weeks straight prior to my Grandmother dying. She did not return until after my second Grandmother passed.

Was this experience difficult to express in words?  No


Did you ONLY sense an awareness of presence of the deceased without actually seeing, hearing, feeling or smelling them?            No

Did you hear the deceased or hear something associated with the deceased?          No

Did you feel a touch or experience any physical contact from the deceased?            Yes

cold, breezy, calm

            Was the touch familiar or unfamiliar?   soft

            Was anything communicated by the touch?  woke me out of bed a most of times

Did you see the deceased?         Yes

Soft cloudy misty figure in form of lady and times with light bright fast lights

            How clearly did the deceased appear?            very clear

            How much of the deceased did you see?       all

            Did the deceased appear or not appear to be the age at which they died?       ?

            How healthy did the deceased appear to be?            healthy

Did you smell a distinct smell, scent, fragrance or odor associated with the deceased?      No

How long did the experience last?        30 seconds minute

Was the beginning and end of the experience gradual or more sudden?         sudden, just there

Could you sense the emotions or mood of the deceased?           No

How do you currently view the reality of your experience?           Experience was definitely real

            Please explain why you view the reality of your experience as real or not real:           I Know, because I been on the other side.

            Was the experience dream like in any way?   No  

Describe in detail your feelings/emotions during the experience:           Why she was there?  What is she doing, than I would go wake up my mom


Was there any emotional healing in any way following the experience?           Yes

I feel it is part of what happen to me earlier and it is part of my life now

What was the best and worst part of your experience?      Not being able to hold hear and have a conversation with them

Has your life changed specifically as a result of your experience?         Yes                 Describe:            Yes,  I am happy and filled with love even with family and friends passing, knowing its OK       

Did you have any changes of attitudes or beliefs following the experience?
   No       Did the experience give you any spiritual understandings such as life, death, afterlife, God, etc.?  Yes     We are all on this earth and will experience this when we pass.  No matter what religion.

Death Compacts are when two or more living people promise among themselves that whoever dies first will try to contact the other(s).  Have you ever made such a compact?        No

Did you observe or hear anything regarding people or events during your experience that could be verified later?          Yes her husband came to house and stated his wife died in house.  My mother described her and he confirmed her looks she described.

What emotions did you feel during the experience?            Calm,

Was the experience witnessed or experienced by others?           Yes

My mother

Did you have any sense of altered space or time?   Uncertain

Did you have a sense of knowing, special knowledge, universal order and/or purpose?    Yes

Yes we all have a purpose and we should all apply this purpose in a positive way to touch others.

Did you become aware of future events?       Yes

sometimes things will happen after I have thought of it or seen it in a vision, not much,

Did you have any psychic, paranormal or other special gifts following the experience that you did not have prior to the experience?         Yes

yes I can see things happen or about to happen,  I am close to people who are about to die.  friends and People that have passed, came to me for calm prior to passing and tell me they will pass, it has happened  several times.

Did you experience a separation of your consciousness from your body?     No

Did you see a light?           Yes

I have seen strong bright lights flash with streams behind it move throughout rooms

Did any part of your experience seem to occur in a place other than the location described above?            Yes

I experience many forms in many places throughout my life with different people who have past.

Have you shared this experience with others?       Yes    

Have you shared this experience formally or informally with any other researcher or web site?   No


 Is there anything else you would like to add regarding your experience?       It is what it is.

Were there any associated medications or substances with the potential to affect the experience?            No

Following the experience, have you had any other events in your life, medications or substances which reproduced any part of the experience?         No 

Did you ever in your life have a near-death experience, out of body experience or other spiritual event?           Yes 

Did the questions asked and information you provided accurately and comprehensively describe your experience?               Yes